The Spirit’s Whisper

Pastor Dan Walker, PhD, MDiv

Introduction

Today, we’re continuing in our message series Need Direction? In this series, we’re learning how to receive guidance and direction from God for our lives. As believers, we often desire clarity for decisions that affect our future, our families, and our faith. God has not left us without direction, but has provided clear and trustworthy means by which He guides His people.

Let’s review some of the key means of guidance that God has provided for us. The first and most important means of guidance is God’s Word, the Bible. God’s Word provides us with the principles and examples that should inform every decision that we make in life.

The second means of guidance is the Holy Spirit and prayer. Oftentimes we think of prayer as asking God for something, yet prayer is meant to be two-way communication. The way that God communicates with us in prayer is through the Holy Spirit, and today we’re going to focus on that truth.

The third means of guidance is godly counsel, and we’ve had a message on that several weeks back. Getting good counsel from other believers is essential for wisdom and discernment. Finally, the last means of guidance is simply the circumstances of the situation, which is the least authoritative form of guidance.

Today, we want to become more familiar with the Holy Spirit through the teaching of Jesus. My message today is entitled “The Spirit’s Whisper.” The Holy Spirit was present at creation, promised in the Old Testament, described by Jesus, and indwells every believer.

Yet, many believers have difficulty in hearing what the Spirit has to say to them. Part of the reason is that the Spirit often speaks in a whisper, and it’s hard to hear a whisper unless you’re in a quiet place. It’s also hard to hear the Spirit if there are other competing voices.

1 Kings 19:11b–13 (NIV) The LORD said, "Go out and stand on the mountain in the presence of the LORD, for the LORD is about to pass by." Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake came a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper. When Elijah heard it, he pulled his cloak over his face and went out and stood at the mouth of the cave. Then a voice said to him, "What are you doing here, Elijah?"

God’s Spirit spoke to Elijah in a gentle whisper, and other voices can easily drown out the whisper of the Spirit. Your own thoughts, the voices of other people, and even the influence of media can overpower what God is saying. The voice of Satan and his demons can also distract us from hearing the Spirit’s whisper.

Each of us hears these four types of voices each and every day, whether we recognize them or not. The voice of the Spirit, our own voice, the voice of other people, and the voice of Satan are constantly competing for our attention. God wants to teach us how to discern the Spirit’s whisper.

Hebrews 5:14 (NIV) But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.

The ability to distinguish or discern the good voice from the evil voice can be developed. Today, we’re going to be trained by Jesus to hear the Spirit’s whisper.

Love and Obey Jesus

John 14:15 (NIV) "If you love me, you will obey what I command."

In this passage, Jesus repeats this truth four times in verses 15, 21, 23, and 24 in connection with His teaching on the Holy Spirit. Because He repeats it so often, it must be very important. Here Jesus states the principle positively, making clear that love and obedience are inseparable.

If someone truly loves Jesus, they will obey Jesus’ commands. In verse 24, Jesus gives the principle in the opposite sense, explaining that those who do not love Him will not obey Him. Love and obedience go hand in hand for true disciples.

Those who say they love Jesus but don’t obey Him, don’t truly love Him. The rest of Jesus’ teaching on the Holy Spirit applies only to those who love and obey Him. Those who love Jesus can receive the Spirit and hear His voice.

Receive the Spirit as Your Counselor

John 14:16–17a (NIV) And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever—the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him.

Jesus promises that He will ask the Father to give believers the Holy Spirit. At that time, Jesus Himself was the Counselor of the disciples, but when He ascended into heaven, He would no longer be physically present. The Spirit would then become another Counselor for them.

The Greek word for Counselor is parakletos, which can also be translated as comforter, helper, adviser, advocate, or friend. When Jesus says the world cannot accept the Spirit, He means the Holy Spirit is only available to believers who love and obey Him. The Spirit of truth leads believers into all truth and gives guidance for life.

Believe the Spirit Lives in You

John 14:17b (NIV) … But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.

Although unbelievers do not know the Holy Spirit, believers know Him because He lives in them. At the time Jesus spoke these words, the Spirit was living with Him, but not yet in the disciples. This would soon change after the resurrection.

John 20:21–22 (NIV) Again Jesus said, "Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you." And with that he breathed on them and said, "Receive the Holy Spirit."

From that point on, the Holy Spirit indwelt every believer. Today, every believer who loves and obeys Jesus has the Holy Spirit living within them. This indwelling presence is foundational for hearing the Spirit’s whisper.

Understand Jesus Comes to You by the Spirit

John 14:18, 20 (NIV) I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. … On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.

Jesus assured His disciples that even though He was going away, He would not leave them alone. Though Jesus remains in heaven, He comes to believers through the Holy Spirit. Jesus lives in our hearts through His Spirit and communicates with us in that way.

Living in Obedience Keeps the Connection Clear

Our sensitivity to hearing the Holy Spirit’s voice is dependent on our love and obedience to Jesus. When you are loving and obeying Jesus, your relationship with the Holy Spirit is strong and your communication is close. Sin, however, affects our relationship with the Spirit.

The Bible refers to this as quenching the Spirit. We quench the Spirit when we sin or when we ignore His voice in favor of other influences. If you can’t hear the Spirit’s voice, the problem is not that the Spirit has stopped speaking.

1 Thessalonians 5:19 (NIV2011) Do not quench the Spirit.

When we return to loving and obeying Jesus, our sensitivity to the Spirit is restored. God desires to guide His children and speaks faithfully to those who listen.

Receive Direction from the Holy Spirit

John 14:25 (NIV) All this I have spoken while still with you.

Jesus spoke these words while He was physically present with the disciples. He was preparing them for a time when He would no longer teach them in person. We are now living in that time of His physical absence.

John 14:26a (NIV) But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things …

The Holy Spirit teaches believers everything they need to know to follow God’s will. God does not promise to answer every question we might ask, but He faithfully teaches us what is necessary. The Spirit provides sufficient guidance for obedient living.

John 14:26b (NIV) … and will remind you of everything I have said to you.

The Holy Spirit reminds believers of God’s Word at the appropriate time. In order to be reminded, we must first learn God’s Word through reading and study. As we do, the Spirit brings Scripture to mind when we need it most.

John 14:27 (NIV) Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

The peace of Christ comes through the Holy Spirit. This peace drives out fear and worry and becomes an important guide in decision-making. When the Spirit gives peace, it confirms the direction God is leading us.

Learning to Recognize the Spirit’s Peace

The Holy Spirit teaches us as we read Scripture, participate in Life Groups, and listen to biblical preaching. As we allow the Spirit to teach us, He reminds us of truth when decisions arise. This helps us distinguish between competing voices.

When the Bible does not give specific direction, the peace of the Holy Spirit becomes especially important. As you walk with God, you learn to recognize that peace as confirmation. When peace is absent, it is wise to wait.

Philippians 4:7 (NIV2011) And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

The Spirit’s peace guards us from wrong decisions and wrong voices. Through the Spirit’s whisper, God gives the direction we need in life.

Conclusion

Today, we’ve been learning how to hear the Spirit’s whisper. It begins with loving and obeying Jesus as the foundation of our faith. The Holy Spirit lives in every believer as Counselor and guide.

The Spirit teaches us what we need to know, reminds us of God’s Word, and gives us peace as we follow God’s will. As we listen to the Spirit’s whisper, He will guide us in God’s perfect path for our lives.

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